Crow47 Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 (edited) Geez why did it take me so long to find this thread? I usually don't post on threads like this, but I just have to say it. You have two options (to summarize what everyone else has said), either grow a pair and tell her how you feel already, or just accept the fact that you two no longer have a future together and find someone else. Think of how many other women are out there. It's crazy. You will find someone else. Edited November 8, 2007 by Crow47 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCC10281982B Posted November 8, 2007 Posted November 8, 2007 It takes time... I found in hindsight gong out with Amber soon (a week) after Jennifer round 2 helped a lot. It was two birds with one stone; busy (the dates) and someone else. Computer games can help. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamikaze_Badger Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 yeah man, she transferred schools 1000 miles away and is too jealous for a long distant relationship, even though she wants one (well, she's transferring again, but closer... 200 miles away). Told her it's been so long since I've seen her on a steady basis, I'd have to take things slow and get to know her again... god knows I've changed in this past year. She's scared I'd be leading her on, and I told her I couldn't promise we'd get back together. She was too scared of the sound of that, and so now we're not talking anymore. She took the breakup really hard, especially me hooking up with another girl while broken up. There ya have it. Too jealous for a LDR? No, too smart. They are the WORST you can have, and I have yet to see any work out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
oblivescence Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 distance = bad its killed more relationships than anything else. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kash Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 distance = bad its killed more relationships than anything else. Really depends for how long and how far. Long distance relationships tend to work better when the couple has spent a lot of time together before one or both move away. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamikaze_Badger Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 True. Those that start off long are doomed to fail. Cases like Bionic's are doomed to fail as well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waco Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 yeah man, she transferred schools 1000 miles away and is too jealous for a long distant relationship, even though she wants one (well, she's transferring again, but closer... 200 miles away). Told her it's been so long since I've seen her on a steady basis, I'd have to take things slow and get to know her again... god knows I've changed in this past year. She's scared I'd be leading her on, and I told her I couldn't promise we'd get back together. She was too scared of the sound of that, and so now we're not talking anymore. She took the breakup really hard, especially me hooking up with another girl while broken up. There ya have it. Wait, let me get this straight - You wanted to get back together with her. You think she's jealous (which doesn't make any sense) for not wanting a long distance relationship (bad idea anyway). She offers to get back together, you refuse (uh, what???). Then you go and hook up with some other random rebound chick (smart move buddy!). And now you say you've changed a lot in the past year and that you can't promise you'd get back together (even though she apparently kept the hope up that you'd come around after all that .). You're no longer talking because of all of the above (big surprise). Any now you're confused as to why she won't get back together with you? I'm totally lost as to why you are confused about her reaction. Everything you've done has been awesome for scaring her away... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bionix Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 you've got it all wrong, i'll correct you in a minute if I feel like it... brb Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoolMaster Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 My steps. Cut all communcation with her Hang out with your friends have ur private time to mope go find a hobby /end it will be tough but remember, if u were supposed to be together, wouldnt u still be? think about that Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waco Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 It will be tough but remember, if u were supposed to be together, wouldnt u still be? think about that Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigred Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 since you seem to have misplaced yours Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waco Posted November 9, 2007 Posted November 9, 2007 since you seem to have misplaced yours el oh el Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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