Guest Raven65 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 Should parents, "SPANK" their children. Although I have never had a reason to discipline my son in that manner. Yes. Some children seem to never learn whatever you do to try to discipline them. They need that negative reinforcement. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DECwakeboarder Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 If it is justifiable (kid won't respect anything else) then I do agree with it. But drunken bastards that beat their kids, of course not, personally I think the kids should be able to beat their parents Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
flareback Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 As long as hit means spanking in this question then yes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ady1989 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 im pro hitting. im european, and theres none of the "youre grounded and no allowance" crap we have here in canada. if i told a kid to stop being so retared and stop doing stupid crap and they continued, id slap in the face. thats just me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
martymcfly Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 :thumbs-up: Wow...31 out of 43 people say yes...this place is scary. Hitting a child does nothing except possibly psychologically screw them up. 614897[/snapback] I think you are confusing coming home drunk and beating your family with letting a child know the consequences of their actions. The former may screw up a kid. The latter, however, does not have (usually) bad effects aside from a kid becoming afraid of or hating his or her parents. I was spanked (minimally) when I was younger. But as I grew up, I learned how NOT to get spanked. Now my punishment is just an hour-long dissection of every one of my personality traits and how they make me a bad person. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
swifty11212 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 im pro hitting. im european, and theres none of the "youre grounded and no allowance" crap we have here in canada. if i told a kid to stop being so retared and stop doing stupid crap and they continued, id slap in the face. thats just me. 614963[/snapback] well if you were an adult and spanked my child, thats warrentied for me to "defend" my child against you but anyways hitting (in terms of spanking) cant be used as an excuse for what ever reason, imo talking and spanking work when carefully used, dont abuse the privilage. btw guys i dont suggest hitting other peoples children unless your about the same age and/or size Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SMeeD Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 I voted yes but thats for the right to hit your child. On the other hand I think there are better ways to dealing with children. I remember when I would get stuff taken away ex:favorite toy or grounding, it was much worse then being back handed because I was bored out of my mind. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cookieman123 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 but the chances of that are higher for a child that isnt hit. 614898[/snapback] Ha! Show me where you got that statistic! A light buttspank is different from a hit though, and when I see videos of adults beating their children it makes me want to vomit. It's not the way to raise a child and they just repeat what happened to them on their kids. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClayMeow Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 Ha! Show me where you got that statistic! A light buttspank is different from a hit though, and when I see videos of adults beating their children it makes me want to vomit. It's not the way to raise a child and they just repeat what happened to them on their kids. 615054[/snapback] Nobody's advocating beating children senseless. There's a huge difference. Hitting them in a disciplinary action is not bad. And I specifically said "hitting" and not spanking because it doesn't HAVE to be a spank. Sometimes a slap of the face or shoulder has the same results. Or a belt Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
swifty11212 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 MOST of us are referring hitting to spanking, not ABUSING. and also i like how you state spanking screws up kids, thats just the dumbest thing i have ever heard... anyways here, "beat" your kids... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cookieman123 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 Sometimes a slap of the face or shoulder has the same results. Or a belt 615067[/snapback] That disgusts me. People who endorse this kind of stuff just can't handle the issue in any other way, so they turn to physical strength to discipline them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
swifty11212 Posted January 12, 2006 Posted January 12, 2006 That disgusts me. People who endorse this kind of stuff just can't handle the issue in any other way, so they turn to physical strength to discipline them. 615071[/snapback] read my post, and you must live near or have "perfect" children then or dont even live in the north east then how would you react if, just an example, your 6 year old punched and scratched your face in public or if your 14 year old did the same? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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