Mad Cow Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Hey all. I have been going out with this girl for about a month, and I am totally unsure of when to say "I love you". I'm hoping that I shouldn't have said it a long time ago, but I really have no idea. I dont want to sound like I'm coming on too strong by saying it too early. About what point in a relationship do you think this should be said? Thanks all! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
romeo55 Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 (edited) DO NOT SAY IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You rn't that much older than me and if your still in high school than that would be a big NO NO I've seeen it countless time, 3 of my friends, and my cousin both got creeped out and said (ahhh *screams we're not ready for that.... how could you etc) Unless she says it to you THEN it'll be ok Edited November 6, 2005 by Crazy_Dude Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CoolMaster Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Yea i'd wait for her, unless yall are really really into each other and the right moment comes along Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardnrg Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 i think i'm going to throw up Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyrcks9901 Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 I guess my feeling on saying "I love you" depends on if you actually love someone. I'm not sure how old you are but it sounds like you are a sophmore in hs? I wouldn't say that you love her after only a month of dating so I would wait untill you are sure that you should say it. If its questionable in your mind, she probably isn't even thinking about it yet, but we could ask some of the girls here...*hint hint* (WOAH, I have a farmers tan! sry, I just noticed that while typing...like a bad farmers tan.) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireonice Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 i think i'm going to throw up 572924[/snapback] hahahaha that was funny idk what to tell u dude Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vasto Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Don't say it, unless you are the guy that just trys to get some. If you are, than wait for the right moment. I never tell my lady friends that I love them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
henbenley Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 I say it all the time and I dont even have a GF. They dont get freaked out or anything. It all depends on how you say it too. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CmpFreak88 Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 (edited) I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a month now, and I tell her I love her. And she says she loves me. I'm happy and she's happy and this is what I know to be love, so I have no problem saying it. With past girlfriends I never said it because it didn't feel right, this time I didn't even hesitate, it was just natural and perfect. And just because you're saying it doesn't mean you're the guy that tries to get some... I my girlfriend Edited November 6, 2005 by CmpFreak88 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kash Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Here's the perfect way to know when to say those three words: When you're in love, you KNOW you're in love. So you only say those three words when you ARE in love. It's not something that's "supposed" to be done. It's not something that you have to say as some sort of ritual. It's supposed to be natural. You have to really feel that emotion before you can express it verbally. If you don't really love her (which after a month of dating, I highly doubt you do) then you shouldn't say the words. Two things can happen if you say them too early. One, the girl freaks and leaves you in the dust or two, she's already in love and becomes a total nutjob and starts talking about getting married right after high school graduation. You're what, 15? Yea, you're too young to know what love is. Not only that, but trust me, you DON'T want to be in love right now. College has WAY too many opportunities with the opposite . for you to get tied down right now. I say enjoy your relationship with this girl while it lasts (don't expect it to last forever, you're in high school, 99% of high school relationships die off). Once you get to college, have fun like you've never had before. THEN you can focus on falling in love and settling down, when the time is right. Marriage before you're settled isn't exactly the brightest idea. Most couples that married early will tell you that on some level, they regret it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mad Cow Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 lol, talk about a range of answers. You all confirmed my thoughts, I'll wait on this one. I have to say I got a laugh out of some of the replies. Thanks guys Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamikaze_Badger Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Wait untill she says she loves you, then leaves you in the dust. *puts on the Guys Who Have Had That Happen To Them t-shirt* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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