asus Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Well, my GF, idk.. we have been going out since April 15th. I am not normally a nervous person, and when i am with girls, i am not usually nervous either. But with her i get nervous, and she is so laid back and i like her so much. I think its because i have not liked a girl THIS MUCH in a while. Maybe that Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Byron Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Aww asus is feeling those "butterflies" in his tummy :-P Just take it easy man, if you've had any prior experience, you should know that you should do what feels right and what is instinct, because stressing stuff and being nervous is probably not the way that she would like to see you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bionix Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 butterflies are the best part  Just dont be afraid to go outside your comfort level, take a chance... and just be yourself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
shervin2 Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Post a picture and ill see if I can help  No offence but Or WORTH trying to lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Raven65 Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Take it from an old man, be intuitave to her needs, listen even if it bores you. Give her compliments , not too much she'll take them the wrong way. Also donno know how old you r but if you are having ., make sure she is satisfied before you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Goonie Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 this is my area of expertise  Since the probem is obviously not her...or you trying to captivate her interests....then the problem is you. You need to be more comfortable with yourself..before you can be comfortable with someone else. I personally go to all ends when I'm with someone I actually would like to see a second time. Do a self checklist:  Toenails trimmed and feet in tip top shape? Can you wear flip flops in public? lol Teeth on point? (flossed and brushed) Fresh breath? Get icebreakers! Hair under control? No hair growing down the neck, keep it nice (or messy) whatever your style is. Check your threads? No holes in your clothes, lint/hairball free? Get a blacklight! Shoes up to snuff? Comfortable and smell good? Shaved? Keep the face neat...its not replaceable. Have a zit or pimple? Take care of that!  Do a FULL "me inspection" before you meet with someone you like....THEN   act as if you are just hanging out with one of the guys when you are around her. If she doesn't like you when you are being yourself....then she isn't worth the time....she's just another pretty face. I know she may be hot, sweet...and all that jazz...but if you can't be comfortable around her....what's the point?  If none of this does the trick......try this:  Take in a deep breath...hold your breath for 20 seconds.....breath out slow...this calms your central nervous system.   If that doesn't keep the heartbeat down...then TELL her you get nervous around her....I bet she would be flattered anyways. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoCalMixedGuy Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 A couple things: Â 1-Dont trust anything told to you on a Overclocking message board when it comes to girls. Â 2-If you "want" to do something (Kiss,put your arm around her,anal) you just do it, and do it confidentally. If you show signs of nervousness or youre unsure shell sense it also, so just do whatever you want. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Byron Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 A couple things:Â Â 1-Dont trust anything told to you on a Overclocking message board when it comes to girls. Â 2-If you "want" to do something (Kiss,put your arm around her,anal) you just do it, and do it confidentally. If you show signs of nervousness or youre unsure shell sense it also, so just do whatever you want. 471395[/snapback] Â Remember to carefully understand step one before reading step two. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoLoDreaM Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 ya i once had a stage like that... but i just decided screw it.. whats the worst a girl is gonna do?... Â [her talking to her friends] Â "like omg i totally dumped him, he like totally put his arm around me in a movie, thats SOO not cool, i mean we've only dated for almost a month, that is NOT cool what a loser"... Â Â DOUBTFUL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoCalMixedGuy Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Remember to carefully understand step one before reading step two. 471396[/snapback] Â Â The force is strong with you young Byron!! :thumbs-up: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Goonie Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 the checklist is all you need ..trust me Overclock that confidence boy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoLoDreaM Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 OC that confidence.. and while your at it.. start folding with it... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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