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I've only been married once .Still married very happily . Wife is great and I love her a lot. Next month will be 29yrs.

I would happily marry her again. :wub: Now would she re-marry me thats another question :dunno:

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I've only been married once .Still married very happily . Wife is great and I love her a lot. Next month will be 29yrs.

Congrats. 28 years here.

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I've been separated for 3.5yrs after a 6yr marriage, our divorce will finally be official next month. We ended everything on a mutual note and didn't bother with the actual divorce until now because he's wanting to get married to his live-in girlfriend. She is now pregnant. My ex and I have a child together but everything is good there, we both take turns with her without rules or timelines. I'm also in my own relationship that is going strong after 3yrs but we don't plan on getting married and I don't plan on having anymore children.

 

On my end everything is great but my ex has some hatred toward me but I think it stems from me finding a man and moving on first. You'd think after him finding someone who he is starting another family with, he'd have better feelings toward me, but no, he still blames me and thinks I 'owe' him for something. I still can't figure out why because like I said the separation was completely mutual at the time. Oh well... he has to get over it at some point in order for his new life to survive.

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My first wife told me on a Saturday that she was leaving and on Monday she left, gave me no reason. We were only marred about 7 months and we had only dated 6 months. People always say "it takes two" in an effort to spread the blame around I guess, but I did not give here a reason to leave. Now I have been marred 14 years this Valentines Day and can not imagine what life would be like without my wife, she is my best friend. I think peeps see the "grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" . And the grass IS greener on the other side, but that's because no one is over there knocking it down. There are the same problems on whatever side of the fence you are on, because you are there.

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do you have kids

 

No kids luckily. But it was not all that amicable either. I threw her out kinda after I over heard her having a conversation in the bathroom. I actually called her parents up to come get her. She lied to her parents, actually parent. Her dad never knew but her mother did. She lived with her parents and I went to therapy. She didn't because she was in denial that she had emotional problems and guilt problems. We really never talked again until I got home from therapy one night and decided I can't forgive her and told her I will start the divorce paperwork which she had no problem with because whe was always a lazy butt. I actually gave her the kindness of mutual than adultery in the divorce paperwork. I shoulnd't have. I guess the thing I'm most pissed about is I let her off the hook so easy and didn't get that final conversation I wanted to have. That's okay though. She lives in NY now and is married with a kid. My mom called her new husband at his job and told him he maried a whore so thats always good.

 

I have a huge grudge against women. Mom is Bi-polar and caused me nothing but grief in my late teen years. Had a gf who was a vigin who I deflowered and she became psycho. Ended up with a cheating wife. I did find out though she was no saint before I met her.

 

I am 35. I think I have gotten so used to being alone and living by myself now its almost pathetic. I sit around all night and all weekend playing games. BTW I have no friends because they all felt alienated after I got married. You know that story bros before hos and all that crap. Its sad that my gaming teamspeak buddies probably keep me from jumping off the roof of a casino.

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No kids luckily. But it was not all that amicable either. I threw her out kinda after I over heard her having a conversation in the bathroom. I actually called her parents up to come get her. She lied to her parents, actually parent. Her dad never knew but her mother did. She lived with her parents and I went to therapy. She didn't because she was in denial that she had emotional problems and guilt problems. We really never talked again until I got home from therapy one night and decided I can't forgive her and told her I will start the divorce paperwork which she had no problem with because whe was always a lazy butt. I actually gave her the kindness of mutual than adultery in the divorce paperwork. I shoulnd't have. I guess the thing I'm most pissed about is I let her off the hook so easy and didn't get that final conversation I wanted to have. That's okay though. She lives in NY now and is married with a kid. My mom called her new husband at his job and told him he maried a whore so thats always good.

 

I have a huge grudge against women. Mom is Bi-polar and caused me nothing but grief in my late teen years. Had a gf who was a vigin who I deflowered and she became psycho. Ended up with a cheating wife. I did find out though she was no saint before I met her.

 

I am 35. I think I have gotten so used to being alone and living by myself now its almost pathetic. I sit around all night and all weekend playing games. BTW I have no friends because they all felt alienated after I got married. You know that story bros before hos and all that crap. Its sad that my gaming teamspeak buddies probably keep me from jumping off the roof of a casino.

Would you even be able to access the roof of a casino? Seems like the kind of thing casino's wouldn't allow to anyone other than maintenance but maybe I'm wrong.

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Would you even be able to access the roof of a casino? Seems like the kind of thing casino's wouldn't allow to anyone other than maintenance but maybe I'm wrong.

Actually it's not that hard, and around here the casinos have pretty tall parking garages so it's not completely impossible.

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Would you even be able to access the roof of a casino? Seems like the kind of thing casino's wouldn't allow to anyone other than maintenance but maybe I'm wrong.

 

Bridge, other tall structure will suffice. I just thought a casino would make a splash nationally. Go out with a bang at least.

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No kids luckily. But it was not all that amicable either. I threw her out kinda after I over heard her having a conversation in the bathroom. I actually called her parents up to come get her. She lied to her parents, actually parent. Her dad never knew but her mother did. She lived with her parents and I went to therapy. She didn't because she was in denial that she had emotional problems and guilt problems. We really never talked again until I got home from therapy one night and decided I can't forgive her and told her I will start the divorce paperwork which she had no problem with because whe was always a lazy butt. I actually gave her the kindness of mutual than adultery in the divorce paperwork. I shoulnd't have. I guess the thing I'm most pissed about is I let her off the hook so easy and didn't get that final conversation I wanted to have. That's okay though. She lives in NY now and is married with a kid. My mom called her new husband at his job and told him he maried a whore so thats always good.

 

I have a huge grudge against women. Mom is Bi-polar and caused me nothing but grief in my late teen years. Had a gf who was a vigin who I deflowered and she became psycho. Ended up with a cheating wife. I did find out though she was no saint before I met her.

 

I am 35. I think I have gotten so used to being alone and living by myself now its almost pathetic. I sit around all night and all weekend playing games. BTW I have no friends because they all felt alienated after I got married. You know that story bros before hos and all that crap. Its sad that my gaming teamspeak buddies probably keep me from jumping off the roof of a casino.

 

 

boy I can relate... had the same psycho girl and her mother was just as bad...

 

it's not worth holding a grudge but unfortunately you will judge all other woman by this... Lets just say this is a BIG learning curve and now you know what to look for when you think future woman may cheat...

 

Unfortunately we live in a time where half the woman you meet will be cheaters...but hey so are men... you may find that one special one one day who ran acrost the same kind of guy you did for a woman... lets say now you both will appreciate each other more and not take each other for granted because you both will know neither do you want to hurt like that again but you wont also hurt anyone like that either....

 

During and after my divorce I had to get it out of my system so I played the field... but it wasnt until I wasnt satisfied with local picking I started venturing out much farther....

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boy I can relate... had the same psycho girl and her mother was just as bad...

 

it's not worth holding a grudge but unfortunately you will judge all other woman by this... Lets just say this is a BIG learning curve and now you know what to look for when you think future woman may cheat...

 

Unfortunately we live in a time where half the woman you meet will be cheaters...but hey so are men... you may find that one special one one day who ran acrost the same kind of guy you did for a woman... lets say now you both will appreciate each other more and not take each other for granted because you both will know neither do you want to hurt like that again but you wont also hurt anyone like that either....

 

During and after my divorce I had to get it out of my system so I played the field... but it wasnt until I wasnt satisfied with local picking I started venturing out much farther....

 

Play the field? pshh. This town is loaded with skanks and ho bags. The special thing about her was she wasn't from the west. She was from the tri-state area like me. But she moved here at 12 when I came here I was 18. She has daddy issues. Point blank and period. I had mommy issues. Just wasn't a good match even though we had a lot in common and enjoyed most of the same things.

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