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To make a long story short, I hooked up with a girl I used to work with. She's really cool ect ect, we've been going out for a few months now.

 

She's 20 im 19, she's got her own apartment im still with my parents as im in college, she's not in school ect ect.

 

She has her friends that she hangs out with and thats cool, she also has a few guy friends that she hangs out with also, which isn't a big deal if I know them or have met them ect.

 

But every time she goes out (for example tonight, she met 'someone' probably a guy) at mc donalds to eat, which obviously isn't like its a date its just mc donalds but every time she is out with some guy I .ing hate it, a few days ago she went to a guys house (her 'friend') in her apartment complex to use his computer as her computer isn't working right now. and I don't know why I just feel so jealous, this is the first real relationship I've had in a really long time.

 

I dunno I'm just ranting I guess but I cant help but feel concerned, I guess its just me being paranoid or jealous. thoughts or opinions?

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If all the incidents are with 1 guy; o.o

 

The thing is I don't really know, I don't know her friends at all. I know there are a couple guys that are her friends or what ever but I don't know who exactly she is hanging out with.

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The thing is I don't really know, I don't know her friends at all. I know there are a couple guys that are her friends or what ever but I don't know who exactly she is hanging out with.

It's obvious you don't know this girl very well yet. I wouldn't invest too much emotionally into this early relationship until you do. Keep it light and fun. If you're feeling paranoid and anxious it's not much fun.

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It's obvious you don't know this girl very well yet. I wouldn't invest too much emotionally into this early relationship until you do. Keep it light and fun. If you're feeling paranoid and anxious it's not much fun.

 

 

Exactly + i think all this smells like fish. I mean honestly I woman which is in love with someone is not hanging around with other dudes I would say. I believe she would know better not to do it since it could hurt your feelings. Don't take it too serious bro unless you want to be the crying one.

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You could just.... erm.... talk to her?

 

Crazy **** I know :P

 

Every time I try to talk to her about it she gets all defensive and pissed saying "You don't trust me" ect ect. Which turns into what she calls an argument but its not an argument its just her screaming at me all pissed because I'm concerned about this .. I just sit there and remain calm and try to talk to her but she just blows up every time I say I dont like it when she hangs out with guys, she goes "who are you to tell me I can't hang out with my friends" and all that business, when its not like that, I just want to know who these friends are and ..

 

I dunno its .ing brutal, I feel like I'm way to attached to her already and I wish I wasn't.

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Taken from what you just said, it sounds like she has something to hide since she starts yelling at you about it. Just keep acting calm about it and maybe she'll see you aren't mad, just curious. Take it slowly and don't force the issue too much.

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I have no idea about either of you and am just reading in an overclocking forum so take what you read here with a grain of salt. It sounds to me like you don't or can't trust her. If it were me(and it's not), I would find out or get out. If she screams and yells when you ask then you can't find out. That leaves a lot of questions that really need to be answered. If she yells at you now what do you think it's going to be like further down the road?

 

I trust my instincts. Though they aren't always 100% correct I still follow them.

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Sounds like you're being the woman here. Stop freaking out about what she's doing on her own. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. It's pretty clear that's what she's doing. If she's dicking around, you'll find out eventually and since you didn't get so emotionally invested it won't hurt when you break it off with her.

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Sounds like you're being the woman here. Stop freaking out about what she's doing on her own. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. It's pretty clear that's what she's doing. If she's dicking around, you'll find out eventually and since you didn't get so emotionally invested it won't hurt when you break it off with her.

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That's all you can really do unless you want to start spying on her.

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