Kingfisher Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 (edited) She can put up a fight but she isn't entitled to anything. Don't be so sure about that, best to speak with an attorney just to get an idea of what is legally his/hers. Edited March 12, 2009 by Kingfisher Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waco Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Actually he doesn't have to get one. She left him and abandoned the house. She also cheated on him. She can put up a fight but she isn't entitled to anything. He needs a lawyer regardless. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boinker Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Well I am glad to say that I don't have much experience in the cheating feild but I do know this. I would not even let her in my house without a police escort to pick-up her crap if she did that to me. no matter what the variable.. (there are no variables in fact) One you Drop my Trust like that (may as well call it) your done. I had it happen to me once. While an Ex girlfriend were taking a break from one another we had made a promise between us to stay faithful. Well she did not to say the least. I texted her one day and all of the sudden some guy is calling me asking why I am talking to his girlfriend. I clarified the correct name and number and Spilled the beans on every single lie she told him. "And there were many" To say the least She was put out on the street that night. I figured out later that they got together before she and I had our tourmoil, that was great suprise. Then I turned around and made friends with the guy that she was screwing. He was an alright guy after the fact. The she turned around and screwed her sisters husband and got caught red handed. I thank God and Grayhound She's gone. Every Day "there are many Fish in the sea, But you have to set the trot line to get em" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
InCrYsIs Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 (edited) I am starting to think women are more scandalous than men. I have seen way more cheating women than men these days. Don't get me wrong men are dogs but it seems the pendulum is swinging the other way. Edited March 12, 2009 by InCrYsIs Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wildman2 Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Commercial chipper shredder heavy logging axe 3-4 50# bags of agricultural lime good alibi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onion Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Commercial chipper shredder heavy logging axe 3-4 50# bags of agricultural lime good alibi I +1 this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_bowtie Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 True, but the OP also said they were catholic, even if not following the teaching closely. religion shouldnt even be part of the equation...simple fact is...if she was a devote catholic cheating would have NEVER happened to begin with...she wouldnt have put her self in a situation where it could have even led to cheating... So far he is just taking it slowly and not rushing into a decision. They have been separated for a couple of months anyway but that was because she wanted to. I think now that he knows this that will put it back on his terms. did they seperate before she got caught cheating or after...if it was before it was pre-meditated...meaning she was aware and went forth anyhow... people will tell you their intentions from body language and actions...if she left before getting caught she had intent to have an affair...she knew well aware what she was up to... you get wiser with age and when you go thru these things you learn very quick to pick up on signal and you can weed these people out just by talking to them...you quickly find out what kind of people they are... if she left after she got caught...well she just wanted more thats all...your buddy would be best just to move one...rule of thumb once a cheater....always a cheater... It's call Cruel Intentions for a reason... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
damian Posted March 12, 2009 Posted March 12, 2009 Marriage should symbolize true love. Someone who truly loves another should/would never do this. Flame me all you want, you know its true. If you say there's exception, well that just goes to show just how much people have abused the bond. Just my two cents Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr_bowtie Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 agreed.... in this day and age toooooo many people treat marriage like dating when you're single....next Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rokkaholik Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 He needs a lawyer regardless. Agreed... Some states have a 50/50 divorce law. My wife was previously married and when she got divorced, all assetts and all debts were put in a bin and each got 50%. When she left him, she copied all legal papers, bills, mortages, etc... She went to the bank and took out exactly half of what was in their account and put it in her own account, but didn't spend anything. She got a lawyer and he took over the rest. She moved half of the money so her ex-hubby didn't do something stooopid. It was basically an effortless divorce. They had no kids, etc... They had to sell the house and both got half of the profit after the mortage was paid, which wasn't much. When kids are involved as well as other assetts, or pre-nups, some states may handle things very differently. Get A Lawyer if needed. Assume NOTHING Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
rrob Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 it's not about the cost or pain of divorce vs staying in this relationship. it's about do they want to continue. they were separated. she chose to see someone else. doesn't sound like she's committed to fixing it. not sure i'd even call it cheating when they are separated. why did they separate? to consider whether they wanted to make it work. seems like she already decided. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsmee Posted March 14, 2009 Posted March 14, 2009 If my wife was cheating on me, I'd encourage her to get better at it because I obviously found out. After a little training and at the point where I felt that she was getting quite good at it, I'd take her to a casino. I also feel strangely obliged to suggest that she wear long sleeves. Much better for obscuring additional hardware, ie, 4 aces. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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