I'm curious what you guys do in these scenarios though the girls (ok, girl) of the forum can chime in if she wants to.
So anyway there is this girl at this deli I frequent (as in the owner knows my name), she is fairly cute ...has really big "EYES". We are talking huge! I'm saying she walked straight out of an anime GIGANTIC ...with the multi-colored hair too! She's not fat tho I think thick is a fair word. This doesn't bother me. It's the hipster + hippie look. I feel like I need protection just talking to her. I kind of got some hints before but she went out of her way today to really show she likes me (usually I have no clue that a girl likes me), complete with checking up with the grill cook on my order and doing a little dance with a wink when she handed me my food. Her job is just to take orders, you pick up your own food at the counter when it is ready. Yaaah, I didn't how to respond. When people smile at me I smile back so I think I gave her the impression I like her too. This would be a good thing if wasn't for the "dirty/bad" vibe I get.
I think I'm gonna have to keep playing it off when I go back there. If this was the first time I wouldn't ask, but its not and I don't seem to handle these situations very well. They go in various directions and not ever in my favor. So what do you guys do? Especially when they work in places you frequent. And... why do the questionable girls show they like me, why not the cute clean cut ones?
Edited by Fogel, 05 April 2013 - 01:11 PM.